Why I'm Moving to Vancouver

I’ve always believed life happens in cycles. One of those cycles began for me 12 years ago, when I was admitted to CAMH (Centre For Addiction and Mental Health) and diagnosed with bipolar disorder, and finally got the help I needed through medication and therapy. Another came when, after 15 years of getting two separate Master’s degrees, I found the courage to follow that inner voice telling me to become a pelvic health physiotherapist. And now, the time has come for a new cycle to begin: I’m leaving Toronto, and returning to my hometown of Vancouver, British Columbia.

This isn’t an overnight decision. In fact, it’s one I’ve been contemplating for nearly two years. The reason I’m moving back to BC is simple: I need support. I need community to be a better parent, sister, daughter, partner, friend, basic human being. My kid needs that too, especially the love that comes from having grandparents and family around more often. We all need a better quality of life to be our best selves, and margin to care for our mental health. That’s what this new cycle will be all about.

A friend of mine once told me that I’m a wise fool: I go through all kinds of adversities, and somehow emerge stronger, because I try to flow with the cycles, and learn from the mistakes I make along the way. The lesson from this last cycle? I need to slow down, and take care of myself - mind, body and soul. The family I created here in Toronto will always be precious to me (you know who you are!), and they made me into the person I am today. But I’m ready: To transition, not just physically, but emotionally and mentally move forward in a new direction. Let the new cycle begin.

PS - This doesn’t mean I’m giving up being a pelvic health physiotherapist! If you or someone you know is in Vancouver, you can find me down by the beach in Kitsilano. Can’t wait to see you there.